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Some Background

What is a near-death experience?

A near-death experience (NDE) is a profound psychological event that may occur to a person close to death or, if not near death, in a situation of physical or emotional crisis. Because it includes transcendental and mystical elements, an NDE is a powerful event of consciousness; it is not mental illness.

How do people react when they have an NDE?

A person who has had a near-death experience has mixed feelings. One person may express anger, grief, or relief. Some will remember their NDE immediately, whreas others may have the aftereffects and not remember the experience. Some reactions:

  • Fear that the NDE signifies a mental disorder
  • Disorientation because reality has shifted
  • Euphoria, feeling special or “chosen”
  • Withdrawal to ponder the experience

The person next to me was dying; we thought they were hallucinating, but what they described sounded like an NDE. Could this be true?

People who are dying frequently describe seeing a wonderful light or a landscape they want to enter. They may talk with people who are invisible to everyone else, or they may look radiant and at peace. Such “nearing death awareness” may be related to NDEs.

In nearing death awareness, dying people may be aware of the presence of deceased loved ones who are there to reassure them.

How can knowing about NDEs help me?

If you had an NDE, you are not alone and have not lost your mind.

When NDErs own their experience and have somebody to talk with who really knows about it, understands, and gives them the information they need, then those men and women combat veterans can begin to heal.

 


The Military and NDEs

Diane Corcoran was past-president of the International Association for Near-Death Studies (IANDS), which aims to educate people about the phenomenon and support those who have gone through it. Deceased in 2023, she was a retired Army colonel and nurse, serving from the Vietnam War through Desert Storm, and held a doctorate in nurse management. In 1969, Corcoran didn’t know what a Vietnam War soldier was trying to tell her about his near-death experience on the battlefield. The term was unknown at the time, and Colonel Corcoran could see that what he had gone through was life-changing. She recognized that it was a profound and extremely emotional experience. He was so worried that he would not be believed. In current military parlance, he had suffered a "moral injury." Following are excerpts from interviews with retired Colonel Corcoran.

Since that day more than 40 years ago, I have made it my mission to learn more about those who report near-death experiences (NDEs), especially combat veterans.

Gradually, I came to believe that many soldiers were having near-death experiences as bombs exploded and gunfire nearly took their lives. But many were uncomfortable sharing what happened and felt they had no one to talk to. But I knew they needed an outlet – someone to share their life-transforming experience with – who  wouldn’t be dismissive or think they were crazy.

Although clinicians in most healthcare environments may have little knowledge of NDEs and their consequences, additional barriers exist in the military setting because NDEs and their consequences run counter to military culture.

There are many issues, one of which relates to privacy and fear of disclosing an NDE to military commanders or healthcare providers. You may be asked to talk to your psychiatrist or psychologist in strict confidentiality, yet they may interpret the NDE as a mental health issue and put that into your record. When providers do not know about NDEs, they may think you have a mental illness and treat it with medication or other inappropriate intervention.

Commanders have great authority in the military, and if you go to your commander and say, "I need to talk to you privately about this experience I had," that could be the end of your career. It's a culture in which consequences can happen quickly, and because of a lack of knowledge about NDEs, it may end a soldier’s career.

One soldier told me that the minute he told his nurse about his experience, he was sedated for three days and then sent to see a psychiatrist. They thought he was crazy. In fact, people with NDEs are not mentally ill, but they may benefit from supportive counseling to help them integrate the experience. Currently, many providers are not prepared to offer such counseling.

The military depends on structure and discipline, and this type of environment often runs counter to common aftereffects of NDEs. Common effects include changed attitudes and beliefs, such as a philosophy of nonviolence, extreme appreciation of nature, high empathy and affection, and different priorities for time management.

The aftereffects of an NDE aren't always conducive to staying in the military, as NDErs may become altruistic and less rule based. The commander of a unit, a West Point graduate with a lot of experience, told me that since his NDE, he was having trouble with command and discipline issues.

"All I really want to do is put my arm around these young soldiers and say, 'We're going to work it out.' And I have to tell them that it may not work out for them in the military, so they may need to find another place that will value their change in attitude."

A US Army study released in 2004 and published in the New England Journal of Medicine reported that for US soldiers returning from Iraq, the total number of combat stress casualties might range from a one-in-five ratio to one-in-three. Of 6,000 returning vets, nearly one out of every five returning from Iraqi combat experienced anxiety, depression, or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). The study estimated that 17% of soldiers coming home from Iraq and Afghanistan are suffering from PTSD, along with anxiety and depression. By comparison, for Gulf War veterans 10 years earlier, PTSD rates hover at 9%. The research was performed at the Walter Reed Army Medical Center and suggests that the military must continue to fight the stigma attached to mental health.

In 2007, the American Psychological Association released the report of a special task force chaired by an active military psychologist and comprised of psychologists working for the military or for the Veterans Administration. Associated Press science writer, Seth Borenstein, in writing about the report, noted that although more than three out of 10 soldiers met the criteria for a "mental disorder," far fewer than half of those in need sought help.

NDEs are occurring in these circumstances and have been demonstrated by former ABC news anchor Bob Woodruff, who was nearly killed in Iraq when a roadside bomb exploded near the tank he was riding. As reported by the Associated Press, Woodruff, while answering questions publicly for the first time since his release, told reporters, "When it actually exploded, I don’t remember that. But I do remember immediately at that moment that I saw my body floating below me and a kind of whiteness."


Do you feel it's an uphill battle to find someone to understand what combat was like for you?

 

IANDS understands veterans have unique near-death experiences

  • Physical trauma
  • Psychological trauma
  • Emotional trauma (love, grief, guilt, shame)
  • Exceptional near-death experiences
  • Afraid of being labeled crazy
  • Not being heard or understood
  • No place to turn for help (trust)
  • Worried about losing benefits

IANDS provides

  • Unconditional support
  • Confidentiality (not shared, can be anonymous)
  • Finding the words to express the experience
  • Assistance in dealing with the aftereffects
  • Safe and secure place to process what occurred (no judgment)

IANDS is here to help support individual service members, rehab facilities, and VA and military hospitals.

We have developed an educational program for the military environment. An IANDS representative can come to your facility and present a lecture and program to give you basic knowledge about identifying and supporting service members who have had an NDE. The presenter can provide you with materials so you can continue training providers and assist with other resources. This event could qualify for continuing education credits for many disciplines. The representative could also be available to help these facilities on a continuing basis until they are able to educate their own experts. There are many opportunities for research in this field, and we would be happy to assist if you have people interested.

 

JUST CALL — we are here to assist you. Thank you for serving!

 

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Created by IANDS Past-President Diane Corcoran, PhD, RN, Retired Army Colonel, and Rhonda Bailey, former IANDS Business Manager; revised by IANDS
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